I tried a m401 to deploy the probe and a get a error
Your printer's firmware reported an error. Due to that OctoPrint will disconnect. Reported error: !! STOP called because of BLTouch error - restart with M999
it looks like the probe is bad ordered a new one hoping that will fix the problem
Quite often when I have this problem I’ve found that reseating a connector — usually not the one that is connected to the logic board — is all that is required. But that realization inevitably follows a moment of concern that I’ll have to order a replacement (and reflash the firmware to do without it in the short term).