We can't help unless you provide more details like exact steps taken and exact error messages produced. The Windows Firewall settings are quite flexible so the more we know about what you are doing, the better our help might be.
Thank you, I honestly don't know how but it fixed itself. I had to shut off the firewall to connect. But I turned it back on once connected one time and from then on it let me connect without disconnecting it.
Now if I could just figure out the other 100 issues I been playing with! If I get stuck heavily ill ask again but I don't like to unless it's been a couple days of head scratching. Thank you all and have a great day!