Gstreamer/octoprint what am I doing wrong

Camera model
Generic Pi camera w/IR

What is the problem?
Lags severely (60seconds), freezes from time to time

What did you already try to solve it?
tried ssh to disable, reboot then enable then reboot
update and full-upgrade
reinstalled webcam side bar plugin, also have spaghetti detective
tried to install gstreamer but can seem to get it working right

Logs (/var/log/webcamd.log, syslog, dmesg, ... no logs, no support)

pi@wpallc:~ $ sudo apt-get install gstreamer-tools
Reading package lists... Done
Building dependency tree
Reading state information... Done
The following additional packages will be installed:
  gstreamer0.10-tools libgstreamer0.10-0
Suggested packages:
  gstreamer0.10-plugins-base
The following NEW packages will be installed:
  gstreamer-tools gstreamer0.10-tools libgstreamer0.10-0
0 upgraded, 3 newly installed, 0 to remove and 0 not upgraded.
Need to get 2,623 kB of archives.
After this operation, 4,950 kB of additional disk space will be used.
Do you want to continue? [Y/n] y
Get:1 http://archive.raspberrypi.org/debian buster/main armhf libgstreamer0.10-0 armhf 0.10.36-1.5 [1,331 kB]
Get:2 http://archive.raspberrypi.org/debian buster/main armhf gstreamer0.10-tools armhf 0.10.36-1.5 [663 kB]
Get:3 http://archive.raspberrypi.org/debian buster/main armhf gstreamer-tools armhf 0.10.36-1.5 [629 kB]
Fetched 2,623 kB in 8s (345 kB/s)
Selecting previously unselected package libgstreamer0.10-0:armhf.
(Reading database ... 48300 files and directories currently installed.)
Preparing to unpack .../libgstreamer0.10-0_0.10.36-1.5_armhf.deb ...
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Setting up libgstreamer0.10-0:armhf (0.10.36-1.5) ...
Setting up gstreamer0.10-tools (0.10.36-1.5) ...
Setting up gstreamer-tools (0.10.36-1.5) ...
Processing triggers for man-db (2.8.5-2) ...
pi@wpallc:~ $ sudo apt-get install gstreamer
Reading package lists... Done
Building dependency tree
Reading state information... Done
E: Unable to locate package gstreamer
pi@wpallc:~ $ sudo apt-get install gstreamer1.0
Reading package lists... Done
Building dependency tree
Reading state information... Done
Note, selecting 'gstreamer1.0-python-dbg-plugin-loader' for regex 'gstreamer1.0'
Note, selecting 'gstreamer1.0-plugins-ugly-amr' for regex 'gstreamer1.0'
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Note, selecting 'gstreamer1.0-rtsp-dbg' for regex 'gstreamer1.0'
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Note, selecting 'gstreamer1.0-audiosource' for regex 'gstreamer1.0'
Note, selecting 'gstreamer1.0-gnonlin-dbg' for regex 'gstreamer1.0'
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Note, selecting 'gstreamer1.0-pocketsphinx' for regex 'gstreamer1.0'
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Note, selecting 'gstreamer1.0-gtk3' for regex 'gstreamer1.0'
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Note, selecting 'gstreamer1.0-audiosink' for regex 'gstreamer1.0'
Note, selecting 'gstreamer1.0-plugins-bad' instead of 'gstreamer1.0-plugins-bad-faad'
Note, selecting 'gstreamer1.0-plugins-bad' instead of 'gstreamer1.0-plugins-bad-videoparsers'
Note, selecting 'gstreamer1.0-plugins-ugly' instead of 'gstreamer1.0-plugins-ugly-amr'
Some packages could not be installed. This may mean that you have
requested an impossible situation or if you are using the unstable
distribution that some required packages have not yet been created
or been moved out of Incoming.
The following information may help to resolve the situation:

The following packages have unmet dependencies:
 gstreamer1.0-omx-dbg : Depends: gstreamer1.0-omx (= 1.0.0.1-0+rpi12+jessiepmg) but 1.14.4-1+rpt1 is to be installed
 gstreamer1.0-python3-dbg-plugin-loader : Conflicts: gstreamer1.0-python3-plugin-loader but 1.14.4-1 is to be installed
 gstreamer1.0-python3-plugin-loader : Conflicts: gstreamer1.0-python3-dbg-plugin-loader but 1.14.4-1 is to be installed
E: Unable to correct problems, you have held broken packages.

Additional information about your setup (OctoPrint version, OctoPi version, ...)
Latest versions of octoprint, octopi and windows 10 (since my Linux wont boot up)
still a noob to coding but im progressing

Thank yall

I have a better question: Why are you trying to install gstreamer?

thats a good question, through these last few days I have tried many of the fixes i was able to find and gstreamer was one of them.

The first thing I would try is the webcam stream outside OctoPrint. Sometimes, because there is a lot going on in OctoPrint's UI, the camera can lag. Find the stream URL (http://<your-ip>/webcam/?action=stream) and view it in a separate tab/window.

You can also adjust the resolution of the camera - high resolution/FPS combinations can make the Pi/network/browser lag significantly.

Ignore gstreamer, if it doesn't work.

well I got it working with spagetti detective on my cell phone but it wont work on my laptop